The top 10 lies we tell ourselves in security


Hey there,

Have you ever found yourself working in a toxic security culture? Maybe it was one that bullied its users. Maybe it was one that was terrified of all risk.

Culture has a powerful effect on everything happening around it, whether it's team or organizational culture. This week, we wanted to take a little bit of a different approach and explore some toxic narratives that are so prevalent in our field.


Self-talk plays a significant role in how we perform and feel about ourselves on a personal level.

That same sort of dynamic can occur within teams that start reinforcing narratives amongst themselves.

Those narratives can be positive, or they can be really negative. When it takes a turn for the worse, it can be a slippery slope for the broader culture.

Finger-pointing, user blaming, doomsday hypothesizing, and more.

In this article, we're going to break down 10 lies that I've seen security teams tell themselves that can be incredibly harmful.


Action item

Take an inventory of each item in this week's article and honestly ask yourself if your team does any of these things.

If so, which ones? How bad is it? Is it localized to some people or a group?

When you figure this out, you'll have a place to start seeking a better way. But if you never know you've got an issue brewing, you'll never be in a place to fix it!

In case you missed it

The hidden dangers of a toxic culture

As part of our series on DEI, this article breaks down the signs of a culture that is likely doing real harm.

Cybersecurity management that ruins culture

Frank digs into management moves that can absolutely destroy an otherwise good culture.

Interesting resources across the web

This section breaks down some relevant resources across the web for you to check out.

👉 Slack talks about some elements of building a high-performing team culture

👉 Mayo Clinic article on the power of self-talk on a more individual level

👉 Radical Candor by Kim Scott talks about the power of having really open conversations within a team and how it can totally transform the overall performance and culture

Keep growing,

- Rob & Frank

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